Sometimes, you need to lose your dreams to find your calling. Almost a year ago, a random death turned my world upside down. I was so happy to start a new life that even my colleagues could sense my joy. I wanted nothing more. As I looked at others, I always found it easier to see their stars and my flaws. Even if I didn't have many gifts, I was definitely a generous giver. I could have given it all for love and never looked back. I had always perceived my life from a place of scarcity — where I could have earned all the riches but still only noticed Dad’s absence. Don’t misunderstand; I had found my peace. Yet, there was still a daughter and sister in me who carried unresolved emotions. A young girl who didn’t like the way society treated single women. I always knew I was too much of a rebel to quietly dissolve into another man’s home. Even though it wasn't her intention, Mamma unknowingly raised me to respectfully take my space. To settle for a secondary status in my own h...