My thoughts for now

Honestly if I ever analyze there is always so much to do that I find it hard to cope up with everything.

There is only a few thingsI can do. But what I decided was to do as much as I can and leave the other things.

There is so much of our time that we waste and then complain we don't have enough time. I have tried to improve and be better at Time Management and have miserably failed too.

What I ended up concluding is that you just don't learn major Life skills in a day. It takes time and constant effort. There is so much to learn and so many areas where I can improve and I am just trying to do the best I can. But even when I am not at my best, commit mistakes or fail I do react but I have began to learn that its ok. I try to learn my lessons and move on.

As a Buddhist quote goes "You are already perfect but you can still be better". I read it in one of Mark's articles on www.markmanson.net but thought it was a good place to share the quote.

I am not really sure for now what I am passionate about but I am just enjoying the life going at its own pace. Yes I like writing but I am not yet sure if thats where my heart lies. For now I just intend to continue with Journalism, give it my best shot, hopefully turn into my profession and enjoy Life.

Thats it for now guys. Hope all of you out there are doing well.

Stay blessed. 😊

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